This is about another surprising turn since I started sorting out my life after breast cancer.
What’s that got to do with tea cosies? Well it’s all about being ready to take a different path, do something different and in my case something creative.
I’ve always been a corporate woman, writing out my reports on time and speaking the gobbledygook of corporate land. I know what a KPI is (and they’re not fun). I got used to earned my living (apart from a brief spell as a Saturday Girl in a hairdressers when I was 12) using my brain, its always been about my brain organising services and spewing it all out the other side in the local government format.
After the main part of my breast cancer treatment ended and it was just me and the Tamoxifen, I tried to hop back into my same old mould. But it wasn’t working. It took me weeks which started creeping into months, to work out that maybe I needed to try a different approach by doing something practical and, yes, crafty. Creative if you will.
Perhaps I would have arrived there eventually but I do wonder if hitting the doldrums after breast cancer was a godsend because it forced me to re-evaluate what I was up to. A boot up the arse to kick me into a completely new direction.
I didn’t actually end up making tea cosies (but that could be next if I find the right market) but I did start making rugs, which is possibly feeding my annoying hoarding habbit. Instead of throwing out old clothes and fabrics I can now recycle them into wall hangings, cushion covers and, yes, tea cosies.
Along the way I dispelled the myth that I’m no good with my hands because it turns out I am. I also discovered my talent for matching colours. So that’s two good things which have come out of my life after breast cancer.
Forgive me if this article makes it sound as though I was sat in the chair feeling a bit glum and 2 seconds later decided that something creative would spur me into action and found a set of rugging tools lost down the back of the settee and off I went. Sadly it took a lot longer than that. But what have I learned?
- That when you’re looking for something different in your life, the tendency is to kid yourself that you’re taking a totally new direction, when you’re really just trying out the same old weed in a different pond.
- That when you take a new path in life you learn new things about yourself.
- That bringing something to life using colour is a joy and that 30 minutes sitting in silence whilst your handy-work gets one step closer to completion is the best stress buster ever.
And the tea cosy. Well that’s thanks to my sister-in-law Karen, who came up with that idea for my cottage industry.
And I do like a good cup of tea.